Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Transform Your Love Life

The sex life of your wildest dreams starts with a conversation.

From sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander—the couple behind hundreds of thousands of transformed relationships—comes the definitive guide to talking about sex with your partner. No awkward scripts. No clinical jargon. Just honest, intimate conversation that actually works.

Sex Talks walks you through the five essential conversations every couple needs to have:

• Acknowledgement — "Sex is a thing, and we have it."
• Connection — "What do we need to feel close to each other?"
• Desire — "What do we each need to get turned on?"
• Pleasure — "What do we each need to feel good?"
• Exploration — "What should we try next?"

With gripping storytelling and an intimate look at what really happens behind other couples' closed doors, Vanessa and Xander deliver the sex education you wish you'd had—plus the tried-and-tested tools to build the intimacy you've always wanted.

The best thing you can do for your sex life doesn't involve taking off your clothes. It starts here.