Come Together: The Science and Art of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections by Emily Nagoski

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER — From the author of Come as You Are and co-author of Burnout comes an illuminating exploration of how to maintain a joyful, connected sex life in long-term relationships.

"Emily Nagoski is a national treasure—helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives." —Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed

What You'll Discover:

• Why "spontaneous desire" isn't the goal for great long-term sex
• How to talk with partners about desire without taking it personally
• Understanding your "emotional floorplan" to create a sexy state of mind
• Breaking down obstacles like stress, body image, and relationship dynamics
• Science-backed strategies for overcoming gendered beliefs about sex

In Come Together, Emily Nagoski, PhD, dispels the myth that sexual satisfaction inevitably declines in long-term relationships. Instead, she reveals what truly matters: whether you like the sex you're having. This isn't about frequency or desire levels—it's about creating meaningful, pleasurable intimacy that lasts.

Written with scientific rigor, humor, and deep compassion, this hardcover guide offers practical vocabulary, evidence-based techniques, and a compassionate framework for navigating sexual connection with your partner. Whether you're struggling to maintain intimacy or simply want to deepen your connection, Nagoski provides the tools to create the sex life you deserve.

Perfect for: Couples seeking to revitalize their intimacy, individuals curious about the science of desire, and anyone who wants to build a more fulfilling sexual relationship.